Comments on: Babies and single motherhood…. http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/ Living one day at a time. Enjoying one moment at a time. Tue, 15 Dec 2009 16:56:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: GC http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/#comment-95 Thu, 23 Aug 2007 21:02:18 +0100 http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/#comment-95 dropping by from B. Good's re "how do you potentially walk away from an 11yr friendship?" It's not easy and you might regret it. But you put one foot in front of the other and don't look back. dropping by from B. Good’s

re “how do you potentially walk away from an 11yr friendship?”

It’s not easy and you might regret it. But you put one foot in front of the other and don’t look back.

]]> by: The OE http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/#comment-94 Sun, 19 Aug 2007 17:54:54 +0100 http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/#comment-94 If I've learned anything as a secret agent, all things in life are cicular. This is the perfect example of why there is no such thing as no strings attached. If I’ve learned anything as a secret agent, all things in life are cicular. This is the perfect example of why there is no such thing as no strings attached.

]]> by: B. Good http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/#comment-93 Fri, 17 Aug 2007 22:09:30 +0100 http://nextevolution.blogsome.com/2007/08/16/babies-and-single-motherhood/#comment-93 Unfortunately, there's nothing you CAN do. We all have that "friend" we wish we could save from themselves, but its not up to us......its up to them. If yall have talked about it, and she's fine/happy/satisfied/content with where she is, ain't much else you can do. I'd say, you gotta stop lettin' it bother you. And if it bothers you so much that you CAN'T stop it, then you probably need to distance yourself from her and that situation. What if your fears come true, he gets violent, and you get caught up in that too?? You definitely don't want that for yourself, so do what you gotta do to preserve your sanity and your safety, so you can even be AROUND to help/support your fallen friend. Unfortunately, there’s nothing you CAN do. We all have that “friend” we wish we could save from themselves, but its not up to us……its up to them. If yall have talked about it, and she’s fine/happy/satisfied/content with where she is, ain’t much else you can do.

I’d say, you gotta stop lettin’ it bother you. And if it bothers you so much that you CAN’T stop it, then you probably need to distance yourself from her and that situation. What if your fears come true, he gets violent, and you get caught up in that too?? You definitely don’t want that for yourself, so do what you gotta do to preserve your sanity and your safety, so you can even be AROUND to help/support your fallen friend.

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